Is there a dress code?

Tuxes and floor length gowns are not necessary. Dresses, suits, and other evening wear are great but we want our guests comfortable above all else. Dress as formally as you’d like and as comfortably as you’d prefer. Maybe skip the jorts this time around but don’t feel obligated to get a designer tuxedo either (unless you’re into that kid of thing). Jeff and I will be dressed formally in a suit and wedding gown and we’d love to see our friends and family enjoying themselves in outfits that make them feel great!

Is the event indoors or outdoors?

The ceremony and reception will take place indoors at the Ruins at the Astor in downtown Astoria, Oregon. Right after the ceremony, a cocktail and appetizer hour will be held across the street at the Lovell Taproom while we transition the room to be reception-ready. The only time you’ll be outdoors during the wedding will be as you walk across the street to and from the venues.

Will dinner be served?

Yes. A meal will be served during the reception once you come back over from the cocktail and appetizer hour. The meal will be served buffet style with two options for an entree, two sides, and a salad. We’re currently working with our caterer to create an amazing menu for our guests and will update the Reception Dinner Menu when we’ve decided what to serve. Because the meals are being served buffet style, there’s no need to provide a meal option in your RSVP and instead you’ll choose the meal you prefer at the wedding. If you do require a vegetarian or vegan meal, please let us know in the RSVP form. Our caterer is preparing vegetarian and vegan meals to be served separate from the buffet to ensure you have access to these meals.

What should I do if I have dietary restrictions or allergies?

Please let us know in your RSVP if you have any allergies or dietary needs. The venue space is an antiquated 100+ year old hotel and although super gorgeous, is decayed and dust is present. We can’t help these natural factors of the venue but we’re happy to accommodate other sensitivities.

Are children allowed?

Absolutely! Keep in mind though that alcohol will be served and there are areas in the venue that are not safe for children. The floor where we’re holding the ceremony and reception is safe for all ages but the upstairs mezzanine is dilapidated and off-limits to guests aside from photographers. We’ll be blocking access to the mezzanine for everyone’s safety but we ask that you keep eyes on your children in the space. If you do bring children please let us know in your RSVP so that we can coordinate a kid-friendly meal with you.

Will there be alcohol served?

Yes! The open bar will have beer, wine, and champagne available.

Can I take pictures with my phone?

We ask that you don’t use your phone to take photos during the ceremony. We have a photographer contracted to take photos of the big moments and we want you to just enjoy the moment! Phones are fine during the reception though.

Do you have a gift registry?

Yes! Our online registry is linked above in the site banner but we’d also happily accept in-person gifts. We mostly want to be financially stable after planning such a big weekend and have the chance in the near future to take a much needed honeymoon trip. Whatever you plan on doing, please no toasters. We had two until recently and finally have returned to a normal amount of toasters.

How late will the wedding go?

Technically our cut-off for loud amplified music is 10:00 PM per Astoria’s noise ordinance, but we plan on being at the venue and continuing quieter festivities until at least midnight.

When is my RSVP needed by?

Please submit your RSVP as soon as possible so that we can prepare for an accurate amount of guests. If you could submit by Valentine’s Day that would be great timing to provide our final guest amount to our caterers but sooner is better!

Can I bring a plus-one?

Partners, spouses, and children are welcome as plus-ones. Please add plus-ones to your RSVP so we have an accurate headcount.

What is the weather like during March in Astoria typically?

Rainy, overcast, misty. Plan for highs in the 50s and lows in the 40s.

Is Lindsey changing her last name?

Nope. We will remain Jeff Dunn and Lindsey Lewers